Use only sounds and spelling patterns the child has already been taught. This is an informal parent observation, not a standardized test. Stop at the first step that is consistently difficult; that usually gives you a more useful practice target than repeating the whole alphabet.
Step 1 — Can your child recognise the printed letter?
Show a few familiar lowercase letters one at a time and out of alphabetical order. If the child only succeeds when singing the alphabet or seeing capitals, letter recognition itself may still need consolidation.
Step 2 — Can your child give the taught sound?
Ask for the sound used for reading, not only the letter name. For example, a child who sees m should be able to retrieve /m/ if that correspondence has already been taught. Do not include untaught sounds or advanced spellings in this check.
Step 3 — Can your child blend sounds orally without print?
Say a simple familiar word in separated sounds, such as /m/ /a/ /p/, and ask the child to put the sounds together. If oral blending is difficult before letters are even shown, the bottleneck is not simply remembering the alphabet.
Step 4 — Can your child blend a simple printed word?
Use a short word containing only taught correspondences. Point through the word from left to right and let the child attempt the sounds, then blend them. If the child can say each sound separately but cannot join them, use the How Kids Learn Blending guide.
Step 5 — Can your child read a fresh word, not only a memorised one?
Choose another real word built from the same taught patterns but not from the child’s familiar flashcard list. This checks transfer. A child who reads “cat” only because it has been memorised may still struggle with “mat” even though both use known correspondences.
Step 6 — Can the decoding strategy survive inside a short sentence?
Finish with one brief decodable sentence matched to the same taught knowledge. The goal is not speed. Look for whether the child continues to attend to the print instead of abandoning decoding and guessing from pictures, context or the first letter.
These six steps are Tiny Steps editorial observation signals rather than a diagnostic instrument. They help parents describe the first visible breakdown in the reading process.